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Too many children grow up knowing only one parent. This must change.

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We believe Both Parents Matter

We work for the well-being of children in separated families to ensure they have meaningful relationships with both parents, wider family and friends.

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We believe Both Parents Matter

We provide, and encourage the provision of:

guidance, support, education and assistance

Get HelpJoin FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We campaign to raise awareness and address the issues and challenges facing separated families

Get HelpJoin FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We promote and undertake research into the issues and challenges facing separated families

Get HelpJoin FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We emphasise that children need love and care from both parents and their wider families

Get HelpJoin FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

Too many children grow up knowing only one parent. This must change.

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We work for the well-being of children in separated families to ensure they have meaningful relationships with both parents, wider family and friends.

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We provide, and encourage the provision of:

guidance, support, education and assistance

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We campaign to raise awareness and address the issues and challenges facing separated families

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We promote and undertake research into the issues and challenges facing separated families

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We emphasise that children need love and care from both parents and their wider families

Join FNFDonate

 

Children Know That Both Parents Matter

Helping children and families to retain positive relationships after separation or divorce

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FNF is the leading UK charity supporting dads, mums and grandparents to have personal contact and

meaningful relationships with their children following parental separation since 1974.

We offer information, advice and support services helping parents to achieve a positive outcome for their children.

Our online Forum and our network branches also offer free guidance of solicitors and others familiar with the operation of the family courts.

Welcome to our new website. We hope you will enjoy the improved clarity, content, and the mobile-friendly responsive design.

There may be further improvements we could make, so we would greatly appreciate your feedback and suggestions.

Thank you for your support.

 

 

Children Know That Both Parents Matter

 

Helping children and families to retain positive relationships after separation or divorce

FNF is the leading UK charity supporting dads, mums and grandparents to have personal contact and

meaningful relationships with their children following parental separation since 1974.

We offer information, advice and support services helping parents to achieve a positive outcome for their children.

Our online Forum and our network of branches also offer free guidance of solicitors and others familiar with the operation of the family courts.

Welcome to our new website. We hope you will enjoy the improved clarity, content, and the mobile-friendly responsive design.

There may be further improvements we could make, so we would greatly appreciate your feedback and suggestions.

Thank you for your support.


Cafcass, Respect and the Domestic Violence Programs- The Ugly

Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory Support Service) have for many years referred perpetrators of domestic abuse to their ‘Respect’ accredited DAPP (Domestic Abuse Perpetrator Programme). DAPP had formerly been known as the DVIP (Domestic Violence Intervention Project) and DVPP (Domestic Violence Perpetrator Programme). Since around 2016, if the course was ordered by a family court, it was free to the participant. Previously, if a perpetrator was recommended or ordered to undertake this course,

it cost £2,850 for the privilege of participation. Cafcass would not recommend contact between a ‘guilty’ parent and their children, citing the element of risk. Courts too often rubber-stamped this. The Respect DV programme was for male perpetrators only. Cafcass’s Domestic Violence Pathway Project, their DV toolkit, considered that only males could be perpetrators of domestic violence. If women were domestically violent it was because they were victims of oppressive and controlling behaviour from their male partner. This Cafcass ‘toolkit’ was published in 2008. It ignored the fact that for years the Office of National Statistics (ONS) verified that males were between 33% and 50% of domestic violence victims. It also ignored that more children are killed by their mothers than by their fathers. In June 2022 it was announced that Cafcass could no longer access the ‘Respect’ model and that it would be coming to an end by March 2023. The Ministry of Justice called time on the gendered charade. Currently some courts are allowing the ‘Temper’ (registered charity no 1081139) domestic violence model to be used. This course is much shorter and far more effective in outcome. A comprehensive review of the DAPP situation is offered by the Transparency Project here:LINK

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