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Fathers Day 2017

More Support Needed for Fathers

For immediate release 15/6/2017

Why does Mother’s Day always get more attention than Father’s Day? Popular narrative on a mother’s position still casts her as the primary carer, yet all the evidence suggests that the role of fathers is vital, undervalued and in need of far more recognition and support, especially in separated families.

Children born today have a 50% chance of their parents separating before they reach 16 years of age. The consequences are far more pernicious that most people realise. Family separation affects around 180,000 children every year. 90% of these children will end up living with only one parent, almost always mum. According the Office of National Statistics (ONS) 3.8 million children have no paternal involvement at all.  This is hardly surprising given that 40% lose contact with their fathers within three years of separation and only 15% are still in contact with their fathers by the age of 15.

The evidence of poor outcomes for children growing up without paternal involvement is overwhelming. The risks to mental health, school, future relationships and work are doubled for children not enjoying some kind of responsibly shared care by their parents whether together or apart. These difficulties are also linked to higher rates of crime, teenage pregnancy and other disadvantages.

Families Need Fathers are asked by thousands of parents a year, mostly dads, for support with maintaining their relationships with their children after separation.

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Press Release 2nd May 2017 - Child Maintenance Inquiry Results – a missed opportunity

Until Parliament Addresses Issues of
BOTH Receiving and Paying Parents, the CMS will Continue to Fail!

The Work and Pensions Select Committee Inquiry into Child Maintenance was published on 2nd May 2017, having taken extensive evidence from individuals, academics and stakeholder charities such as Families Need Fathers (FNF) and Gingerbread.

Families Need Fathers are disappointed that MPs on the Committee have missed an opportunity to get to grips with the underlying issues of the problems and difficulties in the collection of Child Maintenance. The Committee’s report rightly focuses on the difficulties for Parents With Care (PWCs), but fails to investigate or even acknowledge the written and oral evidence from paying parents and expert submissions. Such evidence included input based on a survey of over 800 Families Need Fathers service users as well as numerous individual submissions about the serious underlying problems of the formula used for calculating Child Maintenance. The report gives the impression of key evidence not even having been read. That this evidence does not feature in the Committees report is, we believe, a gross omission that must be rectified by the new Parliament after the general election.

In particular, the Inquiry report misses an opportunity to address:

1.                1. Affordability
The report fails to recommend a review affordability. People cannot pay what they don’t have and the current formula for Child Maintenance does not take into account paying parents’ cost of living. Indeed, the thresholds for paying Child Maintenance have not been adjusted for inflation since 1998 and the Report has nothing to say about this anomaly despite the clear evidence its failure. Dr Christine Davies’ authoritative written submissions on the non-affordability of Child Maintenance by paying parents on low incomes has also been disregarded – her evidence can be seen here and here.

  1. Discouraging Shared Parenting
    The report fails to address the difficulties of shared parenting. In oral evidence the charity Gingerbread agreed with FNF that the Child Maintenance formula is counter to shared parenting arrangements after separation. That Child Maintenance must be paid by one parent to the other even when they essentially share parenting equally is an affront to modern living. It supports the outdated model of father as ‘provider’ and mother as ‘carer’. The 2014 Children and Families Act sought to begin to redress this and attempted to do away with the concept of ‘non-resident’ and ‘resident’ parents. This message seems not yet got through to the Department or the Committee. – Instead of facilitating shared parenting Child Maintenance discourages it.

  2. Increasing Family Conflict
    Families Need Fathers appreciate that Family Based Arrangements, promoted by the Department for Work and Pensions, can and do work for many parents. However, the Committees Report does not address the multitude of ways in which the Child Maintenance formula provides separated parents with a stick with which to beat each other and fight over money rather than encourage collaboration in their children’s best interests e.g. there is a one seventh increase in child maintenance to the PWC for every 52 nights a child spends with the paying parent, however, if a court order for once a week visits is broken even once, the receiving parent can (and many do) ask for this reduction to be repaid – in effect rewarding the breaking of contact orders for children.

The failure of the Committee’s report to make a meaningful impact rests largely on its focus on the issues of receiving parents. Until key issues are addressed for BOTH receiving and paying parents are addressed major difficulties will continue e.g.

  • Child Maintenance arrears of £4bn will continue to grow.
  • A million children will continue to grow-up without their father in their lives.
  • Children will continue to lose out on half of their extended paternal families: grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, etc.

These deeply damaging losses to children in both love and support as well as finance will continue and get worse.

Self-Employment

The Committee has put considerable focus on self-employment and the inclusion of the ‘lifestyle’ grounds for variation where it appeared that the paying parent was concealing their income and hence not supporting their child. The logic with removing the ‘lifestyle’ ground for variation was that the ‘income’ figure used moved from net to gross income. Thus, it is far harder to manipulate the primary input.

A re-introduction of this would restore added subjectivity that it was previously thought to be undesirable and which has directly led to many inappropriate assessments by the CSA. If the CMS are given any more discretion, it's likely to result in further challenges. Mandatory reconsideration figures will rise (at increased cost to the DWP) and calculations, which are already un-affordable will be made even more so. It will also lead to potentially vastly different ’legal obligations’ as far as maintenance is concerned for two people with very similar circumstances (that can't be ‘fair’).

Further, there is a difference between efficient tax planning and illegality. Gingerbread imply that these are one and the same, but we question that and suggest instead a focus on aligning the CMS formula with more realistic cost estimates on the cost of bringing up children as well as encouraging more participation of both parents in the process.

The issues of the self-employed, we believe, would be best served by remaining HMRC’s responsibility - to get an accurate picture of people’s earnings/assets and only then for the CMS to make assessments. 

We believe that shifting ‘affordability’ assessment back again to the CMS would be a big and retrograde step. After all CMS have not shown themselves efficient or effective when it comes to difficult cases and it seems absurd to have separate assessments of people’s incomes through different departments.  It must be more sensible to make HMRC do what it is supposed to do and to leave CMS to make formulaic decisions as much as possible.  Additionally, it would appear that this would blur the lines of responsibility and risk further confusion and difficulties.

Poor Value for Money for Taxpayers

The CSA was discredited and replaced by CMS. Key failings of CSA remain unaddressed. The service costs £114m and offers very poor value for money to the taxpayer, parents and children. Child Maintenance needs to be re-thought from top to bottom.

In her evidence to the Work and Pensions Select Committee Inquiry into Child Maintenance on 7th December 2016, the Minister, Caroline Nokes, reported that the cost of Child Maintenance collection service is £114m (2015-16) and that it facilitated the collection of £594m in Child Maintenance payments. In her answer to a subsequent question, Ms Nokes stated:

‘The vast majority of people using the Child Maintenance Service are paying regularly. Seven out of eight non-resident parents are paying a contribution towards their maintenance liabilities every single month. That is the space that we are in: 90% of child maintenance is paid and it is paid on time. We are now talking about the remaining 10%.’

The implication of this is that the vast majority of the £114m cost of the service is spent on chasing around 10% of ‘difficult’ cases – a large proportion of which may be uncollectable given the failure to take into account affordability.

Difficulties of the Child Maintenance Formula

o      It lacks an affordability test for the paying parent and thresholds to take into account paying parents’ cost of living have not been reviewed for inflation for almost 20 years.

o      It takes no account of relative income.

o      It takes no account of debts – mostly incurred in family proceedings

o      15% of paying parents driven into poverty, debt and ill health, some report suicide attempts and suicidal thoughts.

o      It disincentivises work - 17% of ‘paying parents’ opt out of work completely.

o      It also disincentivises Parents With Care (PWCs) (mostly mums) from working even when their children attend school full-time (32% surveyed).

o      CMS 20% collection charge when NRPs have payment difficulties push many further into debt and despair and is inequitable.

o      These shortcomings deprive families with children of over £200m a year……and huge amounts of love and parenting.

Jerry Karlin, Chair of Families Need Fathers says “Too many dads are downtrodden rather than deadbeats. Our child maintenance system is inadequate and undermines shared parenting. It discourages parents from working and pushes many into severe hardship and poverty. This Committee’s report simply tinkers around the edges, but does not address fundamental flaws in the system. For the sake of our children, CMS must be completely reformed.”

References:

Families Need Fathers submitted written evidence is here and here, including quotations from respondents to our survey of over 800 service users

Our oral evidence is recorded here.

Oral evidence from the Miniser is here.

FNF BPM Cymru’s written evidence is here.

Authoritative evidence of Dr Christine Davies can be found here and here.

The report of the Select Committee is here

Individual written submissions can be found here.

Please address any queries/requests for data to Michael Lewkowicz at FNF (michael.lewkowicz@fnf.org.uk) or admin@fnf.org.uk.

Notes for editors:

Families Need Fathers - because both parents matter
FNF is a registered charity providing information and support on shared parenting issues arising from family breakdown, and support to divorced and separated parents, irrespective of gender or marital status. FNF is NOT a fathers' rights group - we support the best interests of children - namely mature and collaborative parenting by both parents - an objective which is inadequately promoted in the family court system and associated services.

Our primary concern is the maintenance of the child’s meaningful relationship with both parents.

Founded in 1974, FNF helps thousands of parents every year.

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02 May 2017

FNF Gives Evidence to DWP Select Committee

Families Need Fathers gave evidence today to the House of Commons DWP Select Committee

Press Release - 16th November 2016

Families Need Fathers gave evidence today telling the House of Commons Select Committee Inquiry into child support that the DWP's Child Maintenance Service (CMS) programme - introduced in 2012 to replace the CSA - is far too simplistic and harsh, often forcing poorer non-resident parents into poverty in the callous manner employed by some payday loan companies – even if the children are cared for by their fathers for almost half the time.

FNF has submitted to the committee that the charity's biggest ever member survey had revealed many fathers who wanted to be good parents but were driven to the brink of suicide by the combination of child-related benefits allocations and the primitive formulaic income assessments by the CMS.

After watching the 75 minute evidence session Jerry Karlin said, "We tried to convey to the Committee the absurdity of a system which purports to meet its own objectives and yet driving separated parents further apart and destroying relationships between children and parents by giving financial incentives to both parent to exclude each other from spending time with their children"

The Select Committee also took evidence in camera from 2 non-resident parents about their experience of the CSA/CMS and their resultant fall into poverty.

Video recording of meeting

Note to editors:

The complete submission to the select committee containing our consultation findings, including further quotations from respondents can be downloaded here. Details of the inquiry can be found here. 

The FNF survey of members and supporters across the UK drew 810 responses to an online survey results received between 5th and 26th September 2016.

For comment, case studies or information please contact: media@fnf.org.uk or call Michael Lewkowicz on 0300 0300 110.

Families Need Fathers - because both parents matter
FNF is a registered charity providing information and support on shared parenting issues arising from family breakdown, and support to divorced and separated parents, irrespective of gender or marital status. FNF is NOT a fathers' rights group - we support the best interests of children - namely mature and collaborative parenting by both parents - an objective which is inadequately promoted in the family court system and associated services.

Our primary concern is the maintenance of the child’s meaningful relationship with both parents.

Founded in 1974, FNF helps thousands of parents every year.

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16 November 2016

PA Day 2017 - Separated Parent Quiz

PRESS RELEASE – 20th April 2017 - For immediate release

 

Tuesday 25th April is
Parental Alienation Awareness Day

 

Family separation may bring out the worst in parenting behaviour, forcing children into the focus of family conflict.  Remarkably often, this may turn into Parental Alienation (PA), causing long-term damage to children.

 

Families Need Fathers have compiled a handy self-assessment Good Parenting after separation quiz. This gives clues as to how parents might avoid the pitfalls that are all too common when couples part.

Download it here:

FNF PA Day 2017 Quiz

The questions have been put together with input from expert in the field, Dr Sue Whitcombe and supported by MATCH (Mothers Apart from Their CHildren).

The behaviours identified lead to children expressing an irrational and unwarranted fear or hatred of a parent with whom they previously had a normal, loving relationship.  This is a sign of psychological distress and often results in a child rejecting a healthy parent-child relationship as they are unable to manage this distress.  Left unchecked it results in the destruction not only parental relationships, but also grandparental and other family relationships with half of a child’s family as well as long-term damage to the child.

·         Approximately 50% of FNF service users identify PA as a factor in their family separation.

·         A recent Parliamentary petition attracted 12,000 signatories supporting criminalising PA.

·         Parental Alienation was debated in Parliament on 15th March in Simon Danczuk MP’s  ‘Adjournment’ debate on the subject  (see Hansard here).

·         PA was referenced on 28th March in Suella Fernandes MP’s Ten Minute Rule Motion on Family Justice (see Hansard here).

Please address any queries/requests for data to Michael Lewkowicz at FNF (michael.lewkowicz@fnf.org.uk)

Scottish media contact Ian Maxwell at FNF Scotland (ian.maxwell@fnfscotland.org)
Welsh media contact Paul Apreda at FNF BPM Cymru (paul@fnf-bpm.org.uk)

Notes for editors:

Families Need Fathers - because both parents matter
FNF is a registered charity providing information and support on shared parenting issues arising from family breakdown, and support to divorced and separated parents, irrespective of gender or marital status. FNF is NOT a fathers' rights group - we support the best interests of children - namely mature and collaborative parenting by both parents - an objective which is inadequately promoted in the family court system and associated services.

Our primary concern is the maintenance of the child’s meaningful relationship with both parents.

Founded in 1974, FNF helps thousands of parents every year.

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20 April 2017

Dr Richard A Warshak Research Review - A great new White Paper

White Paper Release – 26th April 2016

 

Stemming the Tide of Misinformation: International Consensus on Shared Parenting and Overnighting

Richard A. Warshak, the world renowned expert on parenting and Parental Alienation (PA), has just published a white paper describing the purpose and background of a two-year project to stem the tide of misinformation that was generating confusion about where the scientific community stood on shared parenting for preschool children.

Four decades of research were reviewed, analysed, and vetted by incorporating feedback from an international group of experts in the fields of attachment, early child development, parent-child relations, and divorce. Social Science and Parenting Plans for Young Children: A Consensus Report was published in the American Psychological Association’s journal, Psychology, Public Policy, and Law, with the endorsement of 110 highly accomplished researchers and practitioners, several who contributed seminal studies cited in the report.

The paper provides the conclusions and recommendations of the consensus report and describes how the report has helped decision makers. After the Warshak consensus report was published, two new studies lent additional weight to the report’s conclusions. The white paper discusses the new studies and describes reactions to the consensus report. The paper concludes by explaining the advantages of having the consensus report reviewed and endorsed by prominent international authorities.

Here is particularly good excerpt from the report:

Should Parental Conflict Trump Shared Parenting Time?
A policy of automatically restricting children’s time with one of the parents when a couple is labelled as “high conflict” brings additional drawbacks and deprives children of the protective buffer of a nurturing relationship with one of their parents.This policy sends parents the message that generating or sustaining conflict can be an effective strategy to override shared custody. This discourages
civil communication and cooperation, and may reduce children’s time with the parent who is less angry, who does a better job of shielding the children from conflict, and who recognizes and supports the children’s need for positive relationships with both parents.
 
Any policy that encourages the instigation and maintenance of conflict between parents by suggesting that such behaviour might be rewarded with more parenting time puts the needs of the children second to the desires of whichever parent opposes sharing parenting time. Such a policy contradicts the best interest standard whose primary purpose is to ensure that the child’s welfare trumps parental entitlements.

Download the full paper Stemming the Tide of Misinformation (free) here.                          See Dr W's blog here.

FNF’s CEO, Jerry Karlin, said “Dr Warshak highlights some of the double standards which brazenly and stubbornly seem to persist in our society despite everyone's apparent agreement that children deserve, require and need meaningful relationships with both their parents - especially after separation or divorce."

Thanks to our friends at the International Council on Shared Parenting (ICSP) in Germany for drawing this report to our attention.


 

For comment, case studies or information please contact: media@fnf.org.uk or call Michael Lewkowicz on 0300 0300 110.

Notes for editors:

Families Need Fathers - because both parents matter
FNF is a registered charity providing information and support on shared parenting issues arising from family breakdown, and support to divorced and separated parents, irrespective of gender or marital status. FNF is NOT a fathers' rights group - we support the best interests of children - namely mature and collaborative parenting by both parents - an objective which is inadequately promoted in the family court system and associated services.

Our primary concern is the maintenance of the child’s meaningful relationship with both parents.

Founded in 1974, FNF helps thousands of parents every year.

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26 April 2016

Press Release: So many Children can't see their Dads at Christmas

PRESS RELEASE – 21st December 2016  - for immediate release 

 

Spare a thought for Fathers this Christmas as

Family Court Orders Are Cruelly Ignored

 

FNF Survey of Christmas Parenting Time 2016

Thousands of children are denied a meaningful relationship with their children after separation. This Christmas Families Need Fathers again draws attention to the failures of compliance and lack of enforcement of family court orders made in children’s interests.

FNF carried out a survey of members and supporters to help gain an understanding of their experience of parenting arrangements post-separation last Christmas. We received 402 responses.

Almost half of respondents’ (46.1%) children did not see their other parent last Christmas.

A notable finding is that half of respondents (50.8%) had a court order in place for contact with their children during this period. However, in 56.6% of cases the order was not complied with.

Of those who were not seeing their children, almost three-quarters did not even receive a card or gift from their children (72.9%) or have the opportunity to speak to them on the telephone (76.2%).

These statistics are now echoed in a study by Slater and Gordon solicitors finding that provision for visitation over Christmas was not made for 42% of separated fathers.

 

FNF’s CEO, Jerry Karlin, said “It is certainly very important to have some kind of written or formal agreement for contact at Christmas, but the bigger problem arises when it seems impossible to enforce the agreement whether ordered by a court or not.  Christmas is a sensitive time for children and parents alike, but that so many dads report that they have not seen their children at all, let alone at Christmas is scandalous”.

The comments made by respondents support this with many saying that “the contact order was worthless” or “she has never stuck to the court order ever and got away with it” or “I wanted to see them or to speak to them but was told ‘no’ by the mother” or “I have no idea if my daughter sees cards and gifts sent”. Many respondents also reported Parental Alienation (PA) being an important factor.

A smaller number expressed joy at a change of heart by their ex “I have seen them for the first time at Xmas for 3 years, it was wonderful” and “FNF gave me the moral impetus to fight for contact and win”.

FNF calls upon the Minister for Justice and the judiciary to address these serious deficiencies in the functioning of the family justice system and in the enforcement of court orders with suitable sanctions such as community service or by granting of court costs against parent refusing to comply with court orders. 

For comment, case studies or information please contact: media@fnf.org.uk. 

 

Notes for editors:

Families Need Fathers - because both parents matter
FNF is a registered charity providing information and support on shared parenting issues arising from family breakdown, and support to divorced and separated parents, irrespective of gender or marital status. FNF is NOT a fathers' rights group - we support the best interests of children - namely mature and collaborative parenting by both parents - an objective which is inadequately promoted in the family court system and associated services.

Our primary concern is the maintenance of the child’s meaningful relationship with both parents.

Founded in 1974, FNF helps thousands of parents every year.

 

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